Veterans Battle the Change to Civilian Life

This is not a new subject. Most veterans struggle when they first get out. It is too difficult the “blend,” into society. They are use to so much structure.

I have talked to many of them while I have writing my book, Signs of Hope for the MIlitary: In and Out of the Trenches for Life.

A common thread is that they fear the unknown. They had set schedules while serving, and then they are turned loose into the private sector.

A horrible statistic is that 22 veterans/active duty soldiers take their own lives every day. Not every month, every day!

Much of this is because a soldier comes out into to the real world, and feels he/she has to be tough. Many do not seek help because it may show they are weak.

What do we do to help them?

There is a 24/7 emergency number to call for help. Please use it if you need it. The number is (877-247-4645).

Where can they go to get help with other matters in their lives, like job searches, mental health, etc.

I am a board member for the following resource you need to check out: http://victory forveterans.org. Check out the site and find many things you may need for help.

We do everything we can to help each veteran. We put flowers on every veterans graves on Memorial Day; We go on trips around the United States to make people aware of the needs for veterans; We own a military museum in Casper, Wyoming with all the proceeds helping veterans, and much more. Check out the site.

Another place that will help, are the VA centers. They help you with cheaper prescription prices, and doctor care. There are VA facilities in every state. Look up the ones for you state.

There are many more things that be helping you. I will be sharing those with you in future posts.

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Up Date on the progress on my new book, Signs of Hope for the Military: In and Out of the Trenches of Life.

I am in the final stages of finishing the book. All I have left is a few more interviews with veterans. This has been my favorite part of putting this book together. I have had an interview and then went home crying. I have had interviews that got me laughing.

On my next post I will select an interview to give you a sneak peek. I will not share an interview every post. I would rather you see it in print than through this medium.

What’s Next?

I have several publishers interested. Now it is up to me to select one is best for me, and does a great publishing the book.

I’ve just started this week to investigate each company that is interested. I found one that doesn’t charge shipping to send me the books. That is huge, but I am very careful, and will keep checking every one out.

Keep in Touch

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Those of you who are a veterans, or a family member of a veteran. God bless you!!

Remember:

You are never alone.

You are never forsaken.

You are never unloved.

And above all…never, ever, give up!

Veterans Day Free Meals

I have the good news for all our veterans. The list below should give you a full day of free meals.

My plan is to go to IHop For breakfast, Applebees for lunch, and Red Robin for dinner. Then start a diet. LOL Enjoy!!

If you like getting updates like this and you are a veteran, or current service member, I send these out sharing military news and my own thoughts. To get each one I post go to the Subscription ICON at the top of the page. When you sign up you will get each post delivered to your mailbox.

VETERANS DAY FREE MEALS – Monday, November 11, 2019


Applebee’s Veterans Day Free Meal
Veterans day free meal.


Buffalo Wild Wings Veterans Day Free Wings and Fries
Free order of boneless or traditional wings plus a side of fries to vets and current military members.


Cracker Barrel Veterans Day Free Dessert
Free slice of Double Chocolate Fudge Coca-Cola cake or a Crated coffee.


Denny’s Veterans Day Free Grand Slam
Free Build Your Own Grand Slam breakfast on Monday, Nov. 11, from 5 a.m. to noon.


Dunkin’ Donuts Veterans Day Free Donut
Free donuts to active duty military and veterans.


Golden Corral Veterans Day Free Meal
From 5:00 PM to 9:00 PM, Golden Corral will be giving out Veterans Day free meals and a beverage.


Home Town Buffet Free Meal
Veterans may eat for free plus a bottled beverage.


IHOP Free Veterans Day Pancakes
Free breakfast combo or a free stack of Red, White, and Blueberry pancakes.


McGrath Fish House Free Meal
Free meal from Veterans menu.


Olive Garden Veterans Day Free Meal
Free entree from a special Vets Day menu with unlimited soup or salad and garlic breadsticks.


Red Lobster Veterans Day Free Appetizer or Dessert
Free appetizer or dessert from a select Veterans Day menu.


Red Robin Veterans Day Free Meal
Free Red’s Tavern Double Burger and Bottomless Steak fries.


Sizzler Veterans Day Free Lunch
Free meal until 4:00 PM — choose from a 6 oz. Tri Tip Steak, single Malibu Chicken, or Half Dozen

You may want to check out my other blog at http//www.dailysignsofhope.com. It gives you a daily thought on hope and helps those who are suffering from anxiety, fear, depression, etc.

Veterans Are 50% More Likely to Commit Suicide

A new record. Two days in a row!

I am afraid today’s topic is very serious. More than 22 veterans take their own lives every day. Yes, I said every day.

The glaring statistic is that those who seek help for the VA are much less likely to commit suicide, because of this I have some statistics and thoughts.

The Va reported that out of 20 veterans that committed suicide 6 had been to the VA for help, but 14 had not. Pretty clear that is vital that you seek help. You will have much more support, and because of that you will a much better chance of survival.

Things we need to ask:

  • Did those 14 veterans private sector care?
  • Were those veterans eligible to use the VA?
  • Were They among those discharged for untreated undiagnosed mental health disorders related to sexual trauma or combat?
  • Did they find the veteran discerned for personality disorder during the era of “Don’t ask, Don’t tell?”

The bottom line is that if you are struggling, get help now!! Below is the helpline to call and get help:

(877-247-4645) Then press 1.

I feel your pain. I have been there. Do not let the dark side overcome you. Seek the light, and tell the darkside he is outta here.

Remember:

You are never alone.

You are never forsaken.

You are never unloved.

And above all…never ever give up!